{"id":1502,"date":"2026-06-12T12:36:50","date_gmt":"2026-06-12T12:36:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nextaddressamerica.com\/?p=1502"},"modified":"2026-06-12T12:36:50","modified_gmt":"2026-06-12T12:36:50","slug":"melissa-hortmans-blunt-advice-to-democrats-before-her-death","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nextaddressamerica.com\/?p=1502","title":{"rendered":"Melissa Hortman&#8217;s blunt advice to Democrats before her death"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<p>Melissa Hortman often told me things she probably shouldn\u2019t have.<\/p>\n<p>One time when I was a Capitol reporter with the <em>Star Tribune<\/em>, she expressed displeasure with a profile I\u2019d written about a Republican operative.<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/nextaddressamerica.com\/?p=1500\">Wannabe Roman Emperor holds blood-soaked spectacle \u2014 and America is paying the price<\/a><\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe journalistic equivalent of a b&#8212;job,\u201d she told me with that grin of hers, which shone through her eyes.<\/p>\n<p>The late speaker was a practicing Catholic who carried in her wallet a prayer of St. Frances \u2014 \u201c<i>Lord, make me an instrument of your peace\u2026.\u201d<\/i> \u2014 but she was raised around a junkyard and loved a saucy joke.<\/p>\n<p>Another time, after I\u2019d written that she\u2019d been badly underestimated, she told me, \u201cWhew, I needed a cigarette after reading that one.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>After the remarkable 2025 legislative session \u2014 when her Democratic caucus shared power with Republicans \u2014 I was hoping for some of that candor so my <em>Reformer<\/em> colleague Michelle Griffith and I agreed to an off-the-record interview.<\/p>\n<div>Her family gave permission to report on the majority of that conversation, which was the last time I spoke to her before she was murdered 36 hours later.<\/div>\n<p>She was mostly satisfied with her final legislative session, which ended with a two-year budget and no government shutdown despite Republicans\u2019 shared control of the House, thereby saving jobs and stability for government workers and the people who rely on them. She had also preserved key accomplishments from the Democrats\u2019 2023-24 trifecta, including a paid leave program that would give new parents a chance to bond with their babies and other Minnesotans the ability to care for their sick loved ones.<\/p>\n<p>The deal was not without cost, however: Hortman had to cast the deciding vote to end public health insurance for undocumented immigrants. It was not an easy vote, and she shed rare public tears when discussing it at a press conference. She was willing to do it, however, because like all great legislative leaders, she\u2019d fall on the grenade for her members, and because she knew that the Trump administration would probably come at the program with knives out anyway.<\/p>\n<p>(As we now know all too well, Trump\u2019s Department of Homeland Security came to Minnesota with guns, and left with American blood on their hands.)<\/p>\n<p>Parts of the Democratic base savaged her regardless. When Michelle and I informed her that our Bluesky account mentions were filled with harsh condemnations of her, she seemed oblivious, saying her feed only seemed to show images of her favorite breed of dog, golden retrievers.<\/p>\n<p>(She fostered her golden Gilbert while he trained to be a service dog, but he failed, so the Hortmans got to keep him. For a time I thought the whole thing was a bit, but she was obsessed with that dog. He ended up being killed in the same political attack that took her life.)<\/p>\n<p>I wrote a column defending her decision on the budget deal, and she texted me that the episode newly motivated her to get into 2024 election data and start prepping for the midterms: \u201cThere are some very significant differences in the 2025 environment, compared to the 2017 environment. A Democratic wave is not a forgone conclusion in the 2026 election and will have to be created.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/nextaddressamerica.com\/?p=1499\">DOJ officials on \u2018pins and needles\u2019 as Trump moves threatens \u2018catastrophe\u2019<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We shared an affinity for certain political truisms: You cannot do anything without winning, and self-deception is dangerous.<\/p>\n<p>Which meant they\u2019d be more focused on vetting candidates, she said. Former Rep. John Thompson, who had some previously unknown horrifying domestic violence allegations, had dragged down the Democratic caucus even before his 2020 election. Rep.-elect Curtis Johnson had cost them dearly in 2024-25 because he didn\u2019t live in his district.<\/p>\n<p>She said the era of community organizers like Barack Obama winning office had \u201crun its course.\u201d Democrats should find candidates who are \u201creal people\u201d with experience outside of politics, she said.<\/p>\n<p>(Spicy, right?)<\/p>\n<p>Hortman also acknowledged that Democrats\u2019 messaging has gone stale and faced polling headwinds on many issues, including immigration and LGBTQ rights. She said that President Donald Trump\u2019s infamous anti-trans campaign ad \u2014 \u201cKamala Harris is for they\/them; President Trump is for you\u201d \u2014 was successful and hurt Democrats, not because people are anti-trans, but because it cemented an already latent idea that Democrats are not in the corner of most people.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let her clear-eyed assessment of polling fool you into thinking she would have caved on Operation Metro Surge or to anti-trans bigotry.<\/p>\n<p>She hated bullies, which, on my best days, is my entire reason for being.<\/p>\n<p>If you went into a lab to create a politician for me to like, you\u2019d come out with Hortman: Principled but willing to compromise; competitive while ethically grounded; a team player but not blind to her own side\u2019s faults; smart but not showy; ambitious but not gross about it; funny and authentic and real as all get out.<\/p>\n<p>Despite these affinities \u2014 and her willingness against the advice of her communications staff to text me back \u2014 I rarely used our relationship to journalistic advantage. I felt I needed to respect her time and her workload.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019m also wary of growing too close or enamored with politicians, both because we need distance to judge them, and because they will invariably let you down.<\/p>\n<p>The politicians come and go, but the work for a more just state, nation and world must be more enduring.<\/p>\n<p>I know she would agree, and so we get up and do the work.<\/p>\n<p>But I also know that when we come across people we respect and admire in this lonely world, we should embrace and hold on to them tightly.<\/p>\n<p>Read more <a href=\"https:\/\/nextaddressamerica.com\/?p=1497\">Expert dismantles Trump\u2019s futile obsession with undoing his biggest humiliations<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Melissa Hortman often told me things she probably shouldn\u2019t have.One time when I was a Capitol reporter with the Star Tribune, she expressed displeasure with a profile I\u2019d written about a Republican operative.\u201cThe journalistic equivalent of a b&#8212;job,\u201d she told me with that grin of hers, which shone&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1501,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1502","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-news"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - 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